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dear mom

dear mom, stop sending me sweet foods because i don't like it. dear mom, stop bragging about me because i'm not that good in school. dear mom, stop comparing my brother to me because it hurts his feelings. and it hurts me as well. please, i beg you, stop. you have lived for half a century (and i do hope you'll live for another half), and dedicating past decades for being a wife and a mother. i couldn't say you're bad at being a mother neither good at it. but the job itself is a great, hard, difficult task. and not everyone can manage it, but you can. it is not 'wash the dishes and the clothes, sweep the floor, clean the house, do the chores, while still do professional job' kind of hard. but it's 'deal with stubborn, depressed, extremely anxious daughter and hyperactive, dyslexia, hot-headed son whose both have social issues' kind of hard. your husband, my dad, is not an easy person to deal with too. he is presumptuous, loud, and like to